yoni massage in cornwall, uk
ceremonial yoni massage
for women to reconnect to their root and their power
There was a time when girls born on this earth did not feel ashamed of their vulva.
There was a time when being violated or abused, having our boundaries crossed, was not a “normal” part of being a woman.
There was a time when CUNT was spoken with reverence for the divine.
We no longer live in that world.
We were born into generations of women who learned to shrink, to silence, to separate from our own wild truth.
And so it makes perfect, intelligent sense
that you might feel numb - because the numbness protects you from the pain.
It makes sense that you might struggle to open - your body has learned to hold the boundaries that your mind has been conditioned out of holding.
It makes sense that sex feels confusing, or unreachable, or simply not yours - you did not grow up in a sex positive world.
None of this means you are broken.
It means your body is wise.
It means you have learned to protect yourself.
And she can also learn to trust again.
Yoni Massage is a sacred space for that remembering — for meeting the parts of you that have gone quiet, for melting the layers of armour and for reawakening the deep pulse of life that has always been yours.
What is Yoni Massage?
Yoni Massage is a sacred form of bodywork devoted to remembering the holiness of the feminine body.
It is not a sexual service.
It is a ceremony of reclamation — an invitation to meet your own body with tenderness, reverence, and truth.
This work honours the yoni as a living altar, holding stories, memories, and wisdom from your life and the lives of those who came before you.
In a session, we work slowly and with deep consent.
You are guided into breath, sound, and presence — helping your body to feel safe and open at her own pace.
Touch may include the whole body, touch around the pelvis and vulva, and, if you are a full YES, internal touch.
Every step is discussed and agreed moment by moment — nothing ever happens to you, only with you.
Yoni Massage is an exploration of sensation, emotion, and energy.
It can release old tension, awaken pleasure, bring clarity, and reconnect you with your own erotic innocence.
Sometimes it is peaceful or blissful or wild or tender.
Sometimes it is tender, messy, or full of tears or deep release.
Always, it is sacred.
This is not about achieving an orgasm or performing.
It’s about listening.
Listening to what your body has been waiting to say — and allowing her to be met, exactly as she is.
Each Yoni Massage session includes:
🔻 Pre- Session Preparation - Educational material about your pelvic anatomy to help you prepare for the session
🔻 Opening conversation & intention setting — time to share what’s alive for you and name your prayer for the session.
Opening conversation & intention setting — time to share what’s alive for you and name your prayer for the session.
🔻 Sacred space creation — opening with prayer, drum, candlelight, and grounding ritual.
🔻 Embodiment practices — guided breath, sound, and movement to support relaxation and safety.
🔻 Bodywork — slow, nurturing touch using Tantric and Taoist techniques to awaken energy flow.
🔻 Devotional breast massage — gentle, honouring touch to reconnect with your heart and sensuality.
🔻 Womb massage — clearing, listening, and re-weaving connection with your creative centre.
🔻 Optional internal yoni massage — only if your body feels ready and with full, ongoing consent.
🔻 Optional devotional witnessing & mirror work — sacred practices to honour your body’s beauty and sovereignty.
🔻 Integration & grounding — prayer, song, and rest to close the session and support your nervous system.
🔻 Aftercare guidance — suggestions for how to nurture yourself as the work continues to unfold.
what happens in a session?
Every Yoni Massage is a ceremony — a slow, intentional journey into your body’s truth.
No two sessions are ever the same, because no two women are the same.
We begin with conversation. You’ll have time to share what’s calling you to this work — what you long to release, remember, or awaken.
We’ll open sacred space with prayer and drum, and I’ll invite you to set your intention for the session.
I’ll guide you into some movement, breath, and sound practices to begin the process of opening, releasing, and relaxing.
The bodywork itself is always guided by your consent and your pace.
I usually begin working on the back, allowing the body and nervous system to relax into the safety of the space and to open energetic pathways throughout the body. The bodywork blends Tantric and Taoist techniques that support energy flow and release tension. There may be different parts of your body calling for attention — we will work with whatever arises.
I offer devotional breast massage as part of the session. Many women have never received nurturing touch on their breasts — only sexual, or connected to breastfeeding or medical care.
Womb massage is usually part of the process. I open this energetic portal with touch and invite you to journey around your pelvic bowl, naming what you can feel there. This helps you become an active participant in the process.
We work with touch around the pelvic area and, when and if your body feels ready, the vulva. Sometimes the yoni wishes to be touched; sometimes she simply wishes to be witnessed, breathed with, or left in peace.
I might invite a devotional practice of witnessing your yoni’s beauty — a sacred moment of being seen, without shame. Mirror work may also be appropriate so that you can witness your own beauty.
If it feels right, we will explore internal massage together - this is a gentle, nurturing process - sometimes there are deep trigger points, sometimes lighter touch - I’m always guided by the truth of your body. We work with a process of releasing tension, guiding you back into sensation, meeting any pain, allowing yourself to feel any pleasure.
Throughout the session, you are encouraged to stay connected to your breath, movement, and sound — to express, release, or guide as needed.
Tears, laughter, numbness, arousal — all are welcome. We never know what will happen in a session, so I encourage you to come without expectation. The effects of this work often continue to unfold for days or even weeks afterward.
This is a space where whatever experience you have is welcome.
There will be some time for integration — giving your body time to absorb what has shifted and to return to deep rest.
We’ll close the session with a prayer and song.
You’ll be supported to ground before leaving, and we’ll speak about any aftercare your system may need.
A Yoni Massage is not a single event; it’s a doorway.
Each session opens another layer of connection, bringing you closer to the steady, pulsing wisdom that lives inside your body.
WHY WOMEN COME
🔻 female empowerment
They feel disconnected from their creativity and their power and they want to embody their full capacity as Creatrix
🔻 INTEGRATING TRAUMA
They’ve experienced boundary violations (abuse, medical, obstretic violence, unable to hold our own boundaries)
Please note: when addressing deep sexual trauma, it is important to have support from multiple sources.
🔻 Miscarriage or Termination
They’ve experienced pregnancy loss recently and need help processing and integrating the experience.
They suffered a miscarriage or termination many years ago — it is never too late to do this work.
🔻 Pain or Discomfort
They are experiencing pain or discomfort around your sexual or reproductive anatomy — perhaps sex is painful, or you have chronic tension in this area.
If you need support with vaginismus, dyspareunia, vulvodynia, chronic pelvic pain, recurrent UTIs or thrush, or any other ongoing issues, I usually recommend a container rather than a one-off session.
Working over time allows your body to feel safe enough to soften, release, and re-pattern.Please note: treating medical conditions requires a multidisciplinary approach. I offer support for these conditions but do not diagnose; I always recommend seeing a medical provider first.
🔻 Fertility
They want to prepare their body for conception in the most supported way possible.
🔻 Postpartum
They are recovering from birth trauma or obstetric violence.
They had a positive birth experience and want to support their body’s physical and energetic recovery through gentle internal work.
🔻 reclaiming pleasure
They struggle to feel sexual pleasure or orgasm. They want to feel more alive and connected to their yoni.
🔻 Tantrikas and Practitioners
They are already working with sexual energy and wish to explore this practice with a female practitioner.
🔻 Menopause
You are struggling with the physical or emotional transitions of menopause and need support navigating this threshold.
You are beyond menopause and wish to explore your sexuality consciously, integrate old traumas, or awaken your creative and erotic energy in new ways.
the yoni witch approach
LINEAGE
I have 10 years of experience holding yoni massage sessions in a trauma-informed way, and I’m constantly developing and adding to my skillset. My lineage includes:
🔻 VITA Coaching
🔻 Holistic Pelvic Care
🔻 Maya Abdominal Therapy
🔻 The Wheel of Consent
🔻 Integrative Breathwork
🔻 Shamanic Healing and Space Holding
🔻 Tantric Massage
My work is not about fixing you — because you are not broken.
Everything your body does makes sense.
I offer a trauma-informed space that honours your sovereignty — your pace, your boundaries, your body’s wisdom.
I work with the physical and the energetic, weaving shamanic tools with grounded, embodied touch.
We might use breath, sound, prayer, movement, and the steady heartbeat of the drum.
Each session is held within sacred space — safe, reverent, and deeply rooted in the earth.
My role is to guide, witness, and midwife your remembering —
so you can return home to the power that has always lived inside you.
Practicalities
INVESTMENT
3 hour Ceremonial Yoni Massage - £333
LOCATION
All sessions are held at my home in Cornwall - just outside
Troon near Camborne.
If you are driving, the roads are very narrow country roads so if this is
challenging for you, do let me know.
Nearest train station is Camborne - 10 minute taxi ride away.
The sessions are held in my Witch’s Hut on private land - there is
wild space outside with a stream, woodland and cold pool for integration time.
You are welcome to spend time on the land after the session.
BOOKING INCLUDES:
Pre-Session Preparation Guidance, Education and Intake Form
3 hour ceremonial bodywork & yoni massage session
Optional solo integration time on my wild land after the session
Guided Practices for post session integration
30 minute integration call after the session.
“Kate is is an exceptionally skilled practitioner and healer. My first session with her was like doing 10 years of therapy in 2 hours. Her level of holding, sensitivity and awareness are profound. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking this type of therapy.” Cheryl Allan
“Kate is a beautiful healer. Super professional, extremely kind and I felt really safe to share my thoughts with her. She holds a really gentle and loving space during treatments and I highly recommend her.” Ellen
“Attending sessions with Kate was a revelation to what degree the trauma around my boy’s birth was still very alive within my body. This surface consciousness brought up by the sessions allowed me to receive the healing needed. Kate’s bodywork delivery was the right container for me to receive this healing in a caring, dignifying way while feeling entirely safe in Kate’s hands.” Victoria Dufour
“A truly beautiful experience of Tantric bodywork massage with Kate who was very giving, warm and kind. Her touch was caring, soothing and energising, and she held a safe space for me to get in touch with my emotions, sensuality, erotic energy and feminine power.” Galya
“Thank you so much. I am blown away by your levels of care, tenderness, opens and professionalism. I was relaxed and able to share deeply personal and sensitive information. I felt that I could trust in myself because I trusted in you. I felt so well held throughout and was given space to come around at the end. A truly remarkable and healing experience. I have so much gratitude for your generosity and care.” Tracey Hill
FAQs
Can I attend a session if I am bleeding?
Yes absolutely - your blood is SO welcome and it can be beautiful to receive Yoni Massage at this time.
can i attend a session if i am pregnant?
When women are pregnant, I work with the principle of “leave the nest alone”, so I won’t do any internal work whilst you are pregnant. You are welcome to come for external touch and energetic work - for internal massage, wait until 6 weeks post partum.
is this a sexual massage?
No. This touch is a nurturing touch rather than a sexual touch, and most women have never been touched like this before. It is different to both medical touch and sexual touch. Having said this, sexual energy & pleasure CAN arise during the session and if it does, it is ABSOLUTELY welcome.
what if i get aroused?
Sexual energy and arousal and pleasure CAN arise during the session - and it is ABSOLUTELY welcome.
WILL IT HURT?
We will be exploring your Yoniverse together - so there might be areas that are tense or painful, and if so, we can explore this if you would like to - but focus on MEETING the pain, not pushing past it - and you are always in full sovereignty of how deep you want to go.
DO I HAVE TO REMOVE MY CLOTHES?
You are always in choice. Some parts of the session may be done clothed or partially covered. You’ll be invited, not required, to undress as feels comfortable to you. Your body will can always be draped throughout the session OR you can be completely naked - it’s up to you.
what if i change my mind?
You can stop, pause, or redirect the session at any time. Your sovereignty and safety are central to this work. Consent is ongoing, never a one-time yes. Your NO is just as powerful as your YES.
can i come if i don’t want internal massage?
Absolutely. It’s super powerful to focus on external work and sometimes entirely appropriate for certain circumstances in initial sessions (eg vaginismus)
I’ve experienced significant sexual trauma - can i do this work?
Significant sexual trauma (particularly from childhood) requires deep holding over time. If you haven’t already begun processing this, I recommend working with a therapist alongside this practice, or joining a longer container with me rather than booking a single session. Contact me if you are unsure.
How will i feel during the session?
Everything is welcome — tears, laughter, numbness, arousal, memories, nothing at all. Your body knows how to release and express what it’s ready for. Some sessions can be very peaceful and still, others are more active. I am trained in trauma-informed holding and will support you to stay grounded and safe.
What can I expect afterwards?
You may feel peaceful, emotional, energised, tired, or deeply rested. Integration can continue for days or weeks afterwards and various emotions can arise- I advise spending half an hour or more on the land to integrate before you get back in your car.Will this help my Dyspareunia/ vaginismus/ vulvodynia/ CHRONIC UTI/ RECURRING THRUSH/ CHRONIC PELVIC PAIN ETC
Yes! Yoni Massage can be deeply supportive for chronic conditions, helping you reconnect with your body and release holding patterns.
AND, if you are struggling with any specific chronic issues it’s usually most effective to hold a series of sessions over a period of time.
If your budget is limited, one of my group containers may be a more accessible option.
I AM NOT A MEDICAL DOCTOR AND I DO NOT DIAGNOSE - I ALWAYS RECOMMEND CHECKING WITH YOUR MEDICAL CARE PROVIDOR
This work may be right for you if:
🔻 You long to reconnect with your body, pleasure, or feminine essence.
🔻 You’re ready to release old stories of shame, numbness, or self-doubt.
🔻 You crave gentle, sacred touch that asks nothing of you.
🔻 You want to learn how to listen to your body and honour her truth.
🔻 You’re seeking a trauma-informed, safe space to explore your sexuality, healing, or creativity.
🔻 You’re simply curious — something inside you knows there is more to your body than you’ve been taught to believe.
You don’t need to know why you’re drawn to this work — the body often knows before the mind catches up.
If you feel the call, that’s enough.
