KATE moo
My mission in this life is to awaken the remembering that our YONI —
our vulva, vagina, womb, ovaries, pussy, cunt (however you love to call your genitals) — is SACRED.
This remembering needs to be culture wide - it is for EVERYONE - men, women and gender expansive folk.
The cultural and ancestral patterns of patriarchy tell us to be ashamed of our yoni, our sexuality, and our blood for good reason — because these aspects of woman’s psycho-spiritual landscape contain SO MUCH POWER.
When we release these patterns, we can use this power to create not only the lives we desire, but the world we want to live in.
My prayer is that everyone with a vulva can grow up PROUD of their menstrual blood, their sexuality and their genitals.
My prayer is that every womb may bleed free from pain and free from shame.
My prayer is that all sexual intimacy unfolds in full-bodied consent, deep awareness, and true connection.
This is the world I want to live in, and I’m calling it in.
We don’t have to accept things the way they are.
We are CREATRIX.
It’s time for change.
I live in the wilds of Cornwall, UK with my unschooled teenage son and his dad, my beloved.
I am a devotee of Mamm Norvys - Mother Earth - and I am a Moonwitch.
I follow the cycles of the earth, the moon, the cycles of life and death, and the way that these cycles are reflected in our wombs and in our lives and in our breath.
I am wild and witchy. I dance naked in the woodlands and bleed on the earth. I swim in the icy ocean and sleep under the stars. I look for magic in the feathers I find and I listen to the whisperings of the trees and the plants.
My path is to help others to find these wild, witchy forgotten parts of themselves - and bring them home.
I am on a continuous path of expansion in my own sexual expression. As well as being witchy, earthy, I’m also pretty kinky! I love playing with BDSM and I’m dedicated to bringing the light to those of us who are turned on by power play. I’m well aware of the shame that so many of us experience in this realm and how living in the shadows of our sexuality restricts our creative power.
Whatever form your sexuality takes - be it hetero, bi, gay, monogamous, poly, kinky, vanilla, or any other of the myriad forms that sexuality can take - I celebrate you.
I believe that when we liberate our sexual energy, we can harness that liberated energy to fast track our spiritual growth.
My calling is to remind us all that we don’t need to look a certain way or be a certain age to be THRIVING in our sexuality - and to KNOW that we are sexy and gorgeous and luscious - at ALL of our life stages - and that being wildly sexy and embodying our sexual energy might look different to how the patriarchy suggests it SHOULD be.
identity
I am a white, able-bodied, cis-gendered, sexually fluid woman in a heterosexual relationship, born and living in the UK. I know that these identities bring me access, safety, and opportunities that are systematically denied to others.
I’m not keen on the word “privilege,” because equality is a birthright, not a privilege. Still, until equality is the ground we all stand on, I acknowledge that what feels ordinary to me is in fact a privilege in this world of imbalance. My responsibility is to use that awareness to help dismantle the systems that keep others from the same freedom.
I am committed to continually reflecting and learning to dismantle the prejudices unconsiously embedded in my psyche through my cultural programming and upbringing.
My desire is to continue to move towards anti-racism and gender expansiveness as human understanding and consciousness continues to evolve.
For those of you who might see this statement as virtue signalling or unneccessary, or repeating what I’m “meant” to say - I get that.
The rebel is VERY deeply ingrained in me - I don’t like being told what to do (unless I’m in a kinky bedroom scene, then I love it! Go figure…) and I have a tendency to walk the path less trodden.
I learned the hard way, through my own lived experience, of the impact that MY unconscious use of language and outdated belief systems had on releationships that are very dear to me, and I’m still working through the aftermath of that.
I’m super aware that we can all get it wrong even with the best intentions in the world - it’s not about walking on eggshells, it’s about being open to hearing other people’s point of view and understanding that different points of view can be equally valid, and being willing to own our own shit and to care about the impact we have on other people.
It can feel incredibly tricky to centre sexual and reproductive anatomy in my work — to speak openly about wombs, blood, and pussies as sacred — while also dismantling patriarchal conditioning and holding inclusivity.
On one hand, many women have felt silenced or erased when the language shifts away from them. On the other, many gender-expansive people feel excluded when womanhood is equated with anatomy.
I don’t believe these truths have to cancel each other out. Both reveal wounds of erasure. My work is about honouring the sacred body — in all its forms — while naming clearly that the womb, the bleed, and the yoni hold immense power that has been suppressed for centuries.
my lineage
I have had so many teachers in myriad forms. It is important to me to honour my teaching lineages.
Professional Certifications & Training:
VITA Coaching Certificate Program (650 hours) with internationally renowned expert Layla Martin at the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality
Shadow of the Shaman - (2 year programme) - Energy Healing, Space Holding & Shadowwork
(Greg Manning)
Integrative Breathwork – Certified Facilitator
(Steph Magenta & Rae Rydall)
Wheel of Consent - Professional Training
(Betty Dodson - delivered by Robyn Dalzen)
The Arvigo Techniques of Maya Abdominal Therapy® – Certified Practitioner Training – Anterior Applications
(Rosita Arvigo - delivered by Amanda Porter)
Holistic Pelvic Care™ – Practitioner Training
(Tami Lynn Kent)
Tantric Education and Tantric Bodywork Training
teachers
I also wish to honour the other, less obvious, teachers I have had on my path:
My son and my stepdaughter have been and continue to be some of my greatest teachers and I am committed to being in lifelong apprenticeship to (all) children, and to constantly unpicking the illusion that I know best.
My devoted parents who taught me from the beginning that I could be different, that I could do anything I wanted and that I would always be loved, no matter what.
My dearly beloved life partner who continually shows me all the places that I need to grow and patiently forgives me on a daily basis.
All of the clients that I have had the honour of supporting one to one and in groups - each and every one has taught me so much.
I am forever in awe and gratitude to the plant and mycelium teachers I have the absolute honour and blessing of being guided by. Words cannot convey the depth of my appreciation for these wisdom keepers.
There are, of course, many more teachers and influencers in my life and work - I name just a few here but I am grateful to everyone who has shared their wisdom with the world that has filtered through to me.